I have been working with a teenager, Bobby, who has Asperger's Syndrome to a moderately severe degree.  He and his mother have been participants in the program for over three years now.  As Bobby has matured, his needs and issues have somewhat changed but his difficulties, sensitivities and abilities have continued in many ways.  For instance, he has never been able to sleep in his own bed and he is 16-years old.  Not long ago, Bobby was able to move from sleeping with his mother to sleeping independently albeit on the living room sofa.

During a recent family therapy session, Bobby’s mother began to talk about how she was going to quit smoking as soon as her son began sleeping in his own room.  Recognizing this as an opportunity, I quickly suggested an alternative arrangement.  What if mom were to stop smoking and her son was to begin sleeping in his own room at the same time?  They could take it upon themselves to challenge and support one another to maintain their own goals!  Surprisingly, they agreed.  Two-weeks later when they again came to see me, mom had not smoked and Bobby was sleeping in his own room.

They continue to be participants of our Outpatient Mental Health Services as they are facing young adult needs for this challenged teen.  However, both Bobby and his mother are feeling hopeful that they can make progress in their own lives simultaneously!

-- Michelle, Therapist